You Can't Buy Love on Russian Dating
Sites
Author: Svetlana
Imagine this
scenario. A gentleman signs up for a Russian dating site and pays the necessary
membership fees. He searches for a lady that catches his eye and
initiates correspondence. The two chat, maybe for a few weeks,
possibly for a few months, and things seem to go well. One day
the gentleman suggests a face-to-face meeting and possibly
marriage. For whatever reason, the lady is not ready to take such
an important step. The gentleman, shocked and angry that she is
not willing to go along with his plans, calls the lady a scammer
and claims she was never serious about him. He may even vent his
frustration on a blacklist
site. Do you think this reaction is fair?
Unfortunately,
this hostile response is what many ladies face when they do not
see eye-to-eye with an online suitor. While most gentleman would
never accuse a traditional dating partner of being scammer (even
though he may spend hundreds of dollars on flowers, dinners,
movies, and other dating expenses), some men do not hesitate to
label the women on Russian dating sites. Why? Because of
misperceptions about the international matchmaking, or the
so-called "mail order bride" industry. Many gentlemen feel,
whether they admit it or not, that ladies on Russian dating sites
owe them something for service fees and chat costs. They believe
that if they shell out enough money, they should have their pick
of any lady on the site. While this may have been the case in the
pioneer days of international matchmaking, it is certainly not
the case today.
The simple truth about most Russian dating
sites is this: The membership fees clients pay help facilitate
communication between Russian women and Western men (something
both parties might never enjoy without our service). The fees do
NOT, however, guarantee any man the lady of his choice, nor do
they obligate the women on Russian dating sites to behave a certain way.
To win a lady's heart, a gentleman must get to know her as a
person and court her the old-fashioned way. Even then there are
no guarantees. But when it happens for real, that is what is what
makes finding The One so special.
About the
Author:
I write about Russia, Russian culture,
and Russian dating sites.
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